The Seeker

Lost Hope

One of my best friends Joanne is such a sweet person and we always had each others back. I called her (Jo).

We had a friendship that was simply amazing! We did everything together.

We shared secrets and dreams that we never told anyone else.

We were as I said best friends but from time to time we did embrace and get somewhat passionate but we never crossed that line completely.

I never understood why so many people have said a man and a woman can’t be just friends or that they can’t love each other so dearly without it becoming something else.

We laughed, cried, hugged, even kissed but it was always in the deepest of friendships.

I think with her I have went further with a relationship than a man and a woman can go without it ever having to do with sex.

YES you can have the deepest and loving friendship with the opposite sex and it never be sexual.

3 Replies to “Lost Hope”

  1. I have several male friends, and they are quite different from my women friends, but then all my friendships with women differ too. In particular, there are a couple of guys who are old school friends of my brothers. I think of them simply as extra brothers, and while I don’t see them often, I know that if I was ever in trouble, they would help me in a heartbeat. So I totally agree with what you are saying here 😊

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    1. I see nothing wrong with counting on someone, male or female with all your feelings and emotions. I know in some cases people have crossed the line and still remained friends. For me, that never happened but if it had I do believe there is a difference in love and sex.
      I have loved very strongly but not as a mate.

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